Bhagavad Gita 17.22
अदेशकाले यद्दानमपात्रेभ्यश्च दीयते।असत्कृतमवज्ञातं तत्तामसमुदाहृतम्॥
adeśha-kāle yad dānam apātrebhyaśh cha dīyate asat-kṛitam avajñātaṁ tat tāmasam udāhṛitam
Translation
That alms given at unfit place and time, and to unworthy persons, disrespectfully and contemptuously, that is declared of darkness.
What it means
A gift given at a wrong place and time, to the unworthy, without respect or with contempt: that is declared tamasic. Even charity can humiliate. The manner of giving is part of the gift.
Try this today
Tamasic giving: the insulting donation - worse than not giving.
Something to reflect on
Have I ever given in a way that humiliated?
Read it in Yathora