Bhagavad Gita 13.9
असक्ितरनभिष्वङ्गः पुत्रदारगृहादिषु।नित्यं च समचित्तत्वमिष्टानिष्टोपपत्तिषु॥
asaktir anabhiṣhvaṅgaḥ putra-dāra-gṛihādiṣhu nityaṁ cha sama-chittatvam iṣhṭāniṣhṭopapattiṣhu
Translation
Unattachment, absence of self-identification with son, wife or home, and constant balance of mind in wished-for and unwished-for events,
What it means
Non-attachment, non-identification with son, wife and home, and constant even-mindedness in desired and undesired events. Love without fusion. Relationships continue, but they stop being mistaken for the self.
Try this today
Family love without fusion: caring for household while not being defined by it, steady in both kinds of news.
Something to reflect on
Can I love my people without being dissolved into them?
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