Bhagavad Gita 14.22
प्रकाशं च प्रवृत्तिं च मोहमेव च पाण्डव।न द्वेष्टि सम्प्रवृत्तानि न निवृत्तानि काङ्क्षति॥
śhrī-bhagavān uvācha prakāśhaṁ cha pravṛittiṁ cha moham eva cha pāṇḍava na dveṣhṭi sampravṛittāni na nivṛittāni kāṅkṣhati
Translation
The Blessed Lord said: He, O Pândava, who hateth not radiance, nor outgoing energy, nor even delusion, when present, nor longeth after them, absent;
What it means
One who does not hate illumination, activity or delusion when they arise, nor longs for them when absent. The first sign is non-reactivity to one's own states. The gunas may come and go; the person stops keeping score.
Try this today
The first mark: neither resenting a bad inner state nor clinging to a good one.
Something to reflect on
Can I let a bad inner state pass without hating it, and a good one without clinging?
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